LGBTQ+ slang dictionary/words

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We have a total of 576 words listed.

69
Sixty-nine (he would like to give and receive BJs at the same time).

A
Asian.

Abrosexuality
Abrosexuality refers to an individual whose sexuality is fluid or changing. An abrosexual person may be a specific sexuality one day and another the next.

Ace
An abbreviation for asexual. As a general word, ace also has the connotation of one capable of mastering expertise on their own or of standing out from the crowd as a maverick.

Aceflux
An orientation that fluctuates across the ace spectrum.

Aegosexual
A disconnection is felt towards the subject of arousal (ace spectrum).

Agender
Non-binary, also known as genderqueer, is a spectrum of gender identities that are not exclusively masculine or feminine?—?identities that are outside the gender binary.

AIDS Terrorist
Someone who is HIV+ and who knowingly engages in unsafe sex.

AJ
In Singapore, AJ stands for gay.

AKA
Also Known As.

Allosexual
Term used to describe a person who experiences sexual attraction and does not identify as asexual, Sometimes shortened to allo.

Alt
Alternative Sex (refers to kinky sex and fetishes like BDSM).

Ambisextrous
A slang term that can alternately mean bisexual, the state of being attracted to two or more genders; unisex, being used by or suitable for any gender; or having characteristics shared by male and female genders (especially sexual characteristics). For example: “Pat is pretty ambisextrous. They date men and women and they also look great in tight dresses or tailored tuxedos.”

Anal
Anal sex.

Androgyne
An androgynous person, as one whose appearance is neither clearly masculine nor clearly feminine

Androphilia
Androphilia and gynephilia are terms used in behavioural science to describe sexual orientation, as an alternative to a gender binary homosexual and heterosexual conceptualisation. Androphilia describes sexual attraction to men or masculinity; gynephilia describes the sexual attraction to women or femininity.

Androsexual
Identifies as being attracted to masculinity or male anatomy, regardless of whether the object of one's affection identifies as a man.

Anilingus
Oral stimulation of the anus.

ANON
Anonymous. Someone who does not want to get person. Probably no phone numbers and may to event want to know your name.

AP
Ass Play.

Aromantic
Lack of romantic attraction towards anyone (aromanticism).

Aromanticism
One of the attributes of aromantics is that, despite feeling little or no romantic attraction, they can still enjoy sex. Aromantics are not necessarily incapable of feeling love.

Asexual
Person who generally does not experience sexual attraction (or very little) to any group of people (ace spectrum).

Asocial
Avoiding social interaction; inconsiderate of or hostile to others.

ASP
Anglo-Saxon Protestant.

Auntie
An aging homosexual.

Autosexual
Autosexual is a term for sexual attraction to oneself, especially a preference for masturbation over sexual intercourse. Experiencing romantic feelings towards oneself is called autoromantic.

Avatar
A small picture (or icon) used to represent a person.

B
Black (African-American).

B&D
Bondage and discipline A milder form of S&M that involves one partner being at least constrained.

B/D
Bondage and/or Domination. Feels like a kinky session.

Baby Dyke
A young or inexperienced lesbian, particularly of high school or college age.

Bady Gay
Somone who has just come out and are very naive about the whole gay thing. A Baby Gay can be any age.

Ball kids
An underground dance movement started by gay youth.

Bareback
The practice of having anal sex without using a condom As in skin-to-skin sex or raw sex.

Basket
Male genitals. Refers to the bulging shape of the male gentials when clothed in a jockstrap or athletic supporter.

Bator
People who tend to enjoy masturbating with others rather than penetration.

BB
The practice of having anal sex without using a condom As in skin-to-skin sex or raw sex.

BBC
Big Black Cock.

BBW
Big Beautiful Woman.

BC
Date app initials for Breath Control.

BDSM
Bondage and Discipline, Domination and Submission, and Sadism and Masochism. BDSM A catch-all term for a broad array of sexual practices that is used to describe the activities of the leather community.

Bear
A bear is a larger and often hairier man who projects an image of rugged masculinity. See our Bears page.

Beard
The significate other half of a person of the opposite sex who is gay, a beard is used to make the world think the gay partner is straight. Sometimes the beard knows they are a beard sometime they are being decieved.

Beef
Buffed men.

Beefcake
A gay man who spends most of his time at the gym, and the rest of it scooping spoonfuls of protein supplement into his post-workout shakes.

Bender
A homosexual male. Someone who is bent, that is, not straight.

Bent
A homosexual male.

Bestiality
Sexual intercourse between a person and a non-human animal.

Bi
A person who is attracted to both people of their own gender and another gender.

Bicurious
An individual who typically identifies as gay or straight while showing some curiosity for a relationship or sexual activity with a person of a different gender.

BiF
Bisexual Female.

Biphobia
An aversion toward bisexuality or people who are identified or perceived as being bisexual.

Biromantic
Relating to people who are romantically attracted to more than one gender. This is different from “bisexual” because a person can feel romantically attracted to someone — that is, desiring a more intimate emotional connection — without necessarily desiring physical, erotic, or sexual gratification.

Bisexual
A person who is attracted to both people of their own gender and another gender. Also called “bi”.

Bisexuality
Bisexuality is a romantic or sexual attraction or behavior toward both males and females.

BJ
Blow Job (oral sex).

Black-eyed peas
Asion term for blacks who only like blacks.

BLM
Black Lives Mater.

Blnd
Blonde (pale-haired).

Blowjob
Putting your mouth's on a guys cock and suck repeatedly until they reach orgasm. Giving a blowjob should not be looked upon as a chore, but as a pleasurable thing for both involved

Blue
Gay, referring mostly to males.

Bog Queen
A gay man who frequents public toilets for sex.

Boi
Pronounced the same as "boy" is a slang within the LGBTQ community meaning a youthful gay man.

Bone Smuggler
A American word for drag Queen.

Boner
An erection of the penis.

Bottom
The passive or submissive partner in anal intercourse.

Breeders
A derogatory term for heterosexuals, especially for those who glorify childbearing, and guys that like to cum inside their partners anus.

Breeding
(Also known as internal ejaculation and, in same-sex contexts, as breeding and seeding) is a sexual act, commonly featured in pornography, in which a male ejaculates inside his partner's vagina or anus without use of a condom, resulting in visible seeping or dripping of semen from the vagina or anus.

Brn
Brunette (having dark brown hair).

Broiler
A Chicken that is passed it (been out on the scene to long).

Bronco
A young homosexual male who is difficult to restrain during intercourse.

Brown/Scat
Some on who is into deficatation.

Brownie Queen
Passive partner in anal intercourse.

Buggery
Anal or oral sex between people, or sexual activity between a person, same as Sodomy

Bull Dyke
Frightening ominous lesbian.

Bulldozer
An extremely butch lesbian.

Bum Cleavage
The area between the buttocks.

Bumhole Driver
Train drivers in the States and Canada are known as 'engineers'. 'Bumhole Driver' One who is active in anal penetration.

Bummer
Active partner in anal sex, old fashioned UK slang term for a homosexual man.

Bumming
Anal sex. When a man inserts his cock into another mans ass and fucks him until he shoots his load up the mans ass.

Bungie Boy
Straight-acting, but gay or bi-boy.

Bunker Shy
A young man who fears being forced into homosexual sex Derivation from a 19th century prison term.

Buns
Butt or when someone wants to be cute about your butt.

Butch
Masculine homosexual.

C
Christian

Caedsexual
Previously Allosexual, now asexual due to previous trauma (ace spectrum).

Camp
Effeminate way of being Gay. One can be camp without being gay. Floppy wrists.

Can't Host
Cannot meat at mine. May be away from home, have flatmates or live at parents.

Cannabis
Cannabis is naturally occurring substance that can act as a relaxant and mild hallucinogenic. When smoked, the effects are usually felt fairly quickly with people feeling more relaxed, happy and generally laid back. Strong cannabis can also lead to pointless giggling, loss of inhibitions and an enhanced appreciation of music and colours. Marijuana has also been reported to ease the pain, nausea and vomiting in advanced stages of cancer, AIDS and other serious illnesses.

Carpet Muncher
Some one who eats pussy.

Castration
Castration is any action, surgical, chemical, or otherwise, by which an individual loses use of the testicles.

CBT
Cock and Ball Torture. This can include various activities, from squeezing and twisting using your hands or using toys.

CD
Dressing in clothing that is traditionally assigned to the opposite gender.

CF/Chem Friendly
Happy to use of illicit substances as an accompaniment or enhancement during sexual activity.

Chaser
Normally weaning someone who’s it attracted to larger men ‘Cubby Chaser’. It can also mean someone who is after someone of a particular fetish.

Chemical Castration
Castration via anaphrodisiac drugs, whether to reduce libido and sexual activity, to treat cancer, or otherwise.

Chicken
A young homosexual male seeking older men; see also: Chicken hawk, referring to an older gay male looking for younger partners

Chicken Hawk
Someone who is attracted to under-age partners

Chubby Chaser
A slim person who is attracted to guys of a broad or heavy build.

Circle
Refers to one's chosen family.

Circle Jerk
Group masturbation or jerking off.

Cisgender
(Often shortened to cis; sometimes cissexual) Is a term used to describe a person whose gender identity corresponds to their sex assigned at birth

Clean Cut
Clean shaven and does not have scruffy haircut and not a lot of body hair.

Clear
Exclusively homosexual.

Clones
The standardised gay male look In the 70's the look included a moustache, muscle shirt/flannel shirt and Levi's The late 80's - 90's included short hair, long sideburns, white tee-shirt, shorts/jeans and Doc boots with grey socks.

Closet (In the)
Not revealing one's sexual orientation to the general population.

Closet Case
Describes a person who keeps their sexual orientation or gender identity a secret from some or all people.

Coming out
Refers to the process that people who are LGBTQ+ go through as they work to accept their sexual orientation or gender identity and share that identity openly with other people. It’s an initiation that we have to go through.

Commando
Men who do not wear underpants under their trousers.

Commitment Ceremony
A public affirmation of your commitment and union Often has roots within pagan ceremonies

Conversion Therapy
An attempt to change a person's sexual orientation to heterosexual or to change a person's gender identity to correspond to the sex the person was identified as having at birth, See Conversion therapy in the UK - a threat to everyone

Cottage
Public toilet Not used much today except by older men

Cottaging
British gay slang for engaging in anonymous sex in a public lavatory a 'cottage' ('tea-room' in gay American vernacular) or cruising for sexual partners with the intention of having sex elsewhere

Cougar
A slang term for a woman who seeks romantic or sexual relationships with significantly younger men.

CPL
Couple.

CPLS
Couples (usually appearing on ads of gay couples seeking for a three-some, four-some, or couple swing).

Creampie
(Also known as internal ejaculation and, in same-sex contexts, as breeding and seeding) is a sexual act, commonly featured in pornography, in which a male ejaculates inside his partner's vagina or anus without use of a condom, resulting in visible seeping or dripping of semen from the vagina or anus.

Cross-Dressing
Dressing in clothing that is traditionally assigned to the opposite gender

Crossing The Line
Ceremony to celebrate crossing the equator. The firstimers would be abused greatly rather homo-erotic

Cruising
Present participle of cruise. The action of the verb to cruise. A concerted effort to find a sexual encounter with another man especially in a public place.

Crystal methamphetamine
Crystal methamphetamine or "tina" is one of the fastest growing drugs in the gay community. To users it's short-term effects may. Crystal can be injected, snorted or smoked. In its crystal form it is called ice or glass

CSD (German Prides)
The abbreviation CSD stands for Christopher Street Day - a historic day of remembrance of the first known resistance of homosexuals and transsexuals to state and social discrimination.

Cub
A younger bear

Cuckold
Iis a sexual scenario that describes how one person is aroused by their partner having a sexual encounter with someone else.

Cum Dump
A person who likes multiple guys cuming inside him without wearing a condom.

Cumshot
Cumshot ejaculation onto another performer's body, such as on the genitals, buttocks, chest or tongue and are currently.

Cunnilingus
Cunnilingus is an oral sex act performed by a person on the vulva or vagina of another person.

Cunt Sucker
A derogatory term for a lesbian.

Cut
Circumcised - circumcized penis

D
Divorced (usually referring to a previous heterosexual marriage)

D/D Free
Drug- and Disease-Free (can also appear as DDF)

Daddy
The term 'Daddy' in the U.S.A. is a person who generally 'tops' or who earns a great deal more money then the younger, if not employed, 'bottom'

Daddy Chaser
A gay man who likes his partners older, richer, but not necessarily wiser.

Deadname
The previous name of someone who has changed that name, especially the pre-transition first name of a transgender person. Deadname can also refer to the act of calling a person (especially a trans person) by that person’s previous name, as opposed to their chosen or preferred name. Deadnaming someone is offensive and disrespectful, even when done accidentally or as a joke.

Demisexual
A demisexual is a person who does not experience sexual attraction unless they form a strong emotional connection with someone. It's more commonly seen in but by no means confined to romantic relationships (ace spectrum).

Descreet
Respecting or maintaining respect, silence, modesty, privacy; may refer to a closeted individual.

DGM
Divorced Gay Male

DILF
"Dad I'd Like to Fuck"

Dipped
Refers to something dunked in some kind of substance

DL
Down Low. If a peron is on the DL, it means they are not out yet and needs to be discreet.

DM
Divorced Male

Dogging
Having sex with strangers in a public place. "Observers are encouraged, thus making dogging a form of exhibitionism" (Wikipedia)

Dom
Dominant Male or Female (prefers a partner who is submissive, sometimes to a point of being a slave)

Dope
Dope (Cannabis) is naturally occurring substance that can act as a relaxant and mild hallucinogenic. When smoked, the effects are usually felt fairly quickly with people feeling more relaxed, happy and generally laid back. Strong cannabis can also lead to pointless giggling, loss of inhibitions and an enhanced appreciation of music and colours. Marijuana has also been reported to ease the pain, nausea and vomiting in advanced stages of cancer, AIDS and other serious illnesses.

Double Penetration
The insertion of two cocks onto another mans anus simultaneously

Douching
The word “douche” is French and means to shower. In this case, anal douching refers to using a device such as a squeezable bottle or tube to squirt water or other liquids like saline up your butt to ‘clean’ it.

DP
Double Penetration: The insertion of two cocks onto another mans anus simultaneously

Drag
Dressed in a way usually identified with the opposite sex- Dressed As a Girl

Drag King
A woman dressed like a man

Drag Queen
A performer (typically a man) who adopts a flamboyant or parodic feminine persona, with glamorous or exaggerated costumes and make-up.

DTE
Down to Earth

DTF
Down To Fuck. If a guy is DTF, he’s looking for a sex.

Duckie
A synonym for gay, particularly when used as a term of endearment.

Dutch Boy
Men, gay or straight, who like to hang with a dyke

Dutch Oven
The act of trapping a person under bed covers after releasing vile ass fumes

Dyke
A lesbian The term derives from the nineteenth-century slang word dike, which referred to male clothing, and when it was first used to refer to women, it carried a derogatory connotation of masculine appearance or behaviour

Dyke Bite
Refers to a straight woman using lesbianism as a feminist argument or a way or insulting men

Dyke Dog
Refers to a male, straight or otherwise, who enjoys the company of lesbian women to a straight woman using lesbianism as a feminist argument or a way or insulting men

Ecstasy
Closely linked to the use of Amphetamines (from which it is derived), Ecstasy, or MDMA, was originally used as a Psycho therapeutic drug. It is a Psychedelic drug that produces euphoria and a feeling of well being, decreased levels of fear and anxiety and a physical stimulant and sensational effect in users. It is illegal in most countries and is one of the most widely used illicit drugs in the world.

Electro
Giving people small electric shocks, this can be done on the skin or from inserting devises inside you. See

Eunuch
A man who has been castrated, or had his testicles removed or rendered non-functional. In the past someone employed to guard the women's living areas.

F
Female

F2F
Face to Face

Facial
To come over the face

Fag Bangle
A gay man who is a just a fashion accessory to a straight women i.e. like the gay men in 'Sex in the City' they are an extension of the straight woman's ward robe

Fag Hag
A (usually straight) woman who socialises extensively with gay men. Fag-hags and hag-fags have special bonds, like fancying same blokes

Fag-Stag
Straight male, who is married or has a girlfriend AND Gay best friends. Straight male who frequents gay bars/clubs to hang out with Gay friends. Some say "it's not cheating" on their spouses/girlfriends. It's "a night out with the bquot;

Faggot
Derived - Way back when churchmen were burning suspected witches (possible lesbians also) at the stake. they stacked the fires with small bundles of branches tied together called "faggots" ... occasionally anyone suspected of homosexuality was (Unfortunately) tossed on, to entertain the crowds hence the term

Faggot (also Fag)
A male homosexual Like dyke, this term was originally used as an epithet, but has been adopted by many of the people to whom it refers There is no general agreement about the origin of the term

Fairy
A male homosexual, especially one who acts or dresses in an effeminate manner This was a common derogatory term for homosexuals during much of the twentieth century Like dyke and faggot, gay people have reclaimed it

Fairy Lady
Term used in the mid-1900's for a lesbian bottom

Family
Meaning being part of the lesbian and gay community As in, "He's a member of the family, He's gay"

FAQ
Frequently Asked Questions

Feigele
A Yiddish term for gay that is derived from the word bird is another possible root for the term "fag." This is especially possible in the United States. The terms "faggot" and "fag" referring to a "bundle of sticks" were rarely used in historical American English. Furthermore, American English has incorporated many Yiddish terms (and pronunciations) into its lexicon. "Feigele" is pronounced "veyg-uh-luh," and as in most Germanic pronunciations, the "v" sound is commonly softened to an "f." In the northeast US, "fag" is pronounced more like, "feyg."

Felching
Felching is the sexual act involving the act of orally sucking semen out of the vagina or anus of one's partner.

Fem Fatale
A queeny queen

Femme
A lesbian or gay man who acts and dresses effeminately

Fems
Feminine (referring to effeminate gays, or those who act girly)

Fetish
A bodily part (or object) that gives sexual arousal; ie Foot Fetish.

FF (Fist fucking)
The act of stuffing a fist in someone's anus

FF (Foot fucking)
The act of stuffing a foot in someone's anus

FFK
FKK is an abbreviation that is found in several european languages, it originaly comes from German and is short for "Frei-Körper-kultur" (free body culture). it can be found on signs at beaches and lakes, tellng the visitor that he is going to enter an area where it is common to nude sunbathing/swimming.

Firth Wheel
A heterosexual in a homosexual group.

Fist
To insert part or all of one's hand into the anus or vagina of a sex partner

Flaming
Very outwardly gay male who displays stereotypical gay behaviors Likes it in the poop shooter: Has a particular affinity for anal sex

Fluffer
Someone who would help another to arousal for a third party (Porn Film, photographer, sex party etc)

Fluffy
Term used by lesbians Meaning a woman is turned on In gay male leather circles, this meant term is meant for someone who isn't into the dress code Derives from the description of someone who wears bulky or "fluffy" sweaters A putdown from a leather man might be: "You look awfully fluffy tonight"
Also can be used as a Derogatory term for a Bear as in "He thinks he's so butch but he's really just a Fluffy"

Fluid
Someone that may be attracted to one gender at one time point and attracted to a different gender or more than one gender at another time point.

Fraysexual
Opposite to Demisexual, dissipates away once an emotional bond has occurred (ace spectrum).

Freeballing
As 'Going Commando' Men are going out and are not wear underpants under their trousers. 'I saw him in the gym and he was obviously freeballing.'

French Embassy
Any location, especially a gym or Y, where gay sex is readily available

Friend of Dorothy's
Referred to as being gay This term has roots from Judy Garland, whose musical ability and tragic life story were so popular with gay audiences and of course from, "The Wizard of Oz", the classic musical

Friends with Benefits
Friends who you have sex with (the benefit is sex).

Frig
Sex between two women, often involving one rubbing the genitals of the other with her fingers; probably derived from friction

Front Marriage
A marriage between a lesbian and gay man in order to "pass" at work and/or with family

Frot
Slag for Frotting.

Frotting
Rubbing two penises together for sexual pleasure. Usually, both men stand or lie down facing each other so that the undersides of both penises touch along their entire length, allowing one person to masturbate both penises simultaneously. The warmth of the other penis and the added stimulation from contact along the entire length of the shaft can create increased sensation compared to ordinary mutual masturbation.

Fruit Flies
Another term for Fag Hags Heterosexual women who socialise extensively with gay men

Fruity
A gay male with feminine characteristics and/or behaviors

FTM
Female to Male Transsexual (lesbians who have had transgender procedures to become male)

Furburger
Derrogatory term for pussy used by straight people to describe lesbians. (e.g. She eats furburgers.)

FWB
Friends with Benefits – Be friends that have sex but with no relationship commitments

GAM
Gay Asian Male

Gang Bang
A gang bang is a where several people, engage in physical sexual activity with one specific person sequentially or at the same time. That specific person is the central focus of the sexual activity; for example, multiple guys fucking one person.

Gassfucked
Term for straight guy getting fucked by gay guy while under influence of alcohol.

Gay
Derived - Homosexual In the seventeenth century, gay expanded from its earlier meaning of cheerful and came also to refer to men with a reputation for being playboys

Gay Damage
Term used when a straight guy has a gay encounter, and is finding it difficult to accept.

Gay Poison
Term used when a straight guy has a gay encounter, and is intoxicated to partake in it again.

Gay Wannabe
Straight guy secretly wanna be gay

Gaydar
The uncanny sensory perception that lesbians and gays have of detecting other gay people in their midst

Gaysted
Term for straight guy that turns gay under influence of drink.

GBM
Gay Black Male

Gender Diversity
Gender identities or expressions that don’t conform to socially defined male or female gender norms. Example: “These new photos have lots of gender diversity: They included non-binary, agender, transgender and genderqueer models.”

Gender Identity
The sense of “being” male, female, genderqueer, agender, etc. For some people, gender identity is in accord with physical anatomy. For transgender people, gender identity may differ from physical anatomy or expected social roles. It is important to note that gender identity, biological sex, and sexual orientation are separate and that you cannot assume how someone identifies in one category based on how they identify in another category.

Gender Inclusive
Relating to or intended for any gender; gender-neutral. While “gender-neutral” is a term that suggests that one’s gender shouldn’t be a factor in a given circumstance, “gender-inclusive” is a more welcoming term that suggests all genders are invited to take part. For example: “No, that’s not a gender-neutral sauna, it’s a gender-inclusive sauna! Don’t you feel more welcome?”

Gender Questioning
Is a tentative gender identity label for a person who is in the process of figuring out how to describe and label their gender identity.

Gender Reveal
Public disclosure of the gender of an unborn baby by the soon-to-be parent or parents. Gender reveals often occur through cakes made with pink or blue filling, parties where parents presume gender based on their fetus’ sonar-imaged genitals, or by detonating deadly pipe bombs that kill family members and burn down 10,000-acre forests.

Genderfluid
Non-binary, also known as genderqueer, is a spectrum of gender identities that are not exclusively masculine or feminine?—?identities that are outside the gender binary.

Genderqueer
A term which refers to individuals or groups who “queer” or problematise the hegemonic notions of sex, gender and desire in a given society. Genderqueer people possess identities which fall outside of the widely accepted sexual binary.

GH
Gloryhole. A hole in a public place where one can insert their penis and receive an anonymous blowjob.

GHM
Gay Hispanic Male

GLBT
Gay Lesbian Bisexual Transgendered

Glory Hole
A hole carved in the partition between stalls in a men's room, and used for sexual liaisons

Going Commando
Men are going out and are not wear underpants under their trousers.

Golden rivet
The non existent rivet, which first trippers are sent to find. Supposedly in the bowls of the ship. Whilst looking, they would be raped

Golden Shower
The act of urinating on a partner

Government-Inspected Meat
A gay man in the armed forces

Greedy
Bi-sexual male/Female because they want both

Greek
To engage in anal intercourse In its more common usage as an adjective, the term refers to a preference for anal sex

Greysexual
Experiences sexual attraction rarely, and/or weakly, and/or ambiguously (ace spectrum).

GSOM
Good Sense of Humor

Guppies
Gay urban professionals, or gay yuppies

GWM
Gay White Male

Gynaeotrope
Derived - A lesbian Kurt Hiller suggested this term in 1946 (and androtrope for a gay male), because of what he considered the negative connotations of "homosexual" Neither term caught on

Gynephilia
Androphilia and gynephilia are terms used in behavioral science to describe sexual orientation, as an alternative to a gender binary homosexual and heterosexual conceptualization. Androphilia describes sexual attraction to men or masculinity; gynephilia describes the sexual attraction to women or femininity.

Gynesexual
Someone who is gynesexual identifies as being attracted to femininity or the female anatomy, regardless of whether the object of one's affection identifies as a woman

H
Hispanic

Hag Fag
The male who hangs around with his fag-hag is a hag-fag. Fag-hags and hag-fags have special bonds, like fancying same blokes

Harness
Usually made of leather, this device is strapped over the hips and crotch (over the thigh for a thigh harness), to hold a dildo in place for sexual penetration

HD
Heavy Drinker

Helmet
Circumcised

Hermaphrodite
Somone who is born with ovarian and testicular tissue that are present ie with external and/or internal sex orans. They both may or may not function correctly.

Heteroflexible
An individual who typically identifies as straight while showing some curiosity for a relationship or sexual activity with a person the same gender.

HH
High and Horny - Relating to someone who is High on drugs and is looking for sex

HNG
Horny Net Geek

Hodophobia
Not to be confused with “homophobia,” which is an aversion or hostility to, disdain for, or fear of gay sexual orientation or gay people, “hodophobia” actually refers to an irrational or disproportionate fear of traveling.

Homo
Homo is perhaps the most interesting term that people have used to dub homosexual individuals. While people continue to use it, the origins do not really make sense. We are all homosapiens, so why would anyone run around calling only homosexuals.

Homophobia
Irrational fear of gay people and of homosexuality George Weinberg, author of Society and the Healthy Homosexual, coined this word in the early 1970's It filled a need for a gay people at that time because, in one word, it eloquently conveyed the idea that it was gay-bashers, not gays themselves, who had a problem

Homosexual
Attracted physically to people of the same sex

Honeypot
A woman's genitals

Hookup
To meet up for sex.

Horny
Someone who are sexually aroused or that they easily become sexually aroused, alos randy.

Hosting
Person with thier own place, to have sex with one or more people.

HS
Heavy Smoker

Hula Hoop
Your bottom entrance

Hundred-And-Seventy-Fiver
A homosexual Paragraph 175 of the German Penal Code of 1871 outlawed homosexual practices; thus a 175er in Germany was someone violating this paragraph

Hung
Well-endowed; having a large penis The term can also be used more generally: "He was hung like a mouse" means "he has a small penis"

Hunk
A large, strong, sexually attractive man.

HWP
Height-Weight Proportional

ICQ
A free online messaging service (www.icq.com) derived from the phrase “I Seek You”; this term is usually followed by an “ID number” or the user’s numeric code

IM
Instant Messaging (like ICQ, AOL Instant Messenger, Yahoo! Messenger, MSN Messenger, etc.)

IM me
Send me an Instant Message

In the Life
A commonly used term for a gay man/woman within the black community

Intermediate Sex
Homosexual The term was used by Edward Carpenter and others around the turn of the century, but soon fell into disfavour

Intersex
A congenital anomaly of the reproductive and sexual system. Intersex people are born with external genitalia, internal reproductive organs, and/or endocrine system that are different from most other people.

Intersexual
Intersexuality occurs whenever a human being has both male and female physical characteristics. Contrary to myth, intersexuals do not have two sets of genitals

IR
Interracial

IRL
In Real Life

ISO
In Search Of/ I Seek Of

J
Jewish

J/O
Jack Off (masterbation).

Jack-of-Spades
A person who means is a lover of young black men.

Jiz
Semen or Cum.

Jock
A gay man with an athletic build who typically enjoys sports and likes Jock straps

K
Kids

Kerb Crawler
A person cruising the street and drives slowly to view street prostitutes, with sexual business in mind.

Ketamine
Ketamine is a powerful general anaesthetic which stops you feeling pain and it’s used for operations on humans and animals. The effects don’t last long, but until they wear off, ketamine can cause a loss of feeling in the body and paralysis of the muscles. It can also lead to you experiencing a distortion of reality.

Kiddie Porn
Child pornography. nude photographic material of boys or girls under the legal age.

Kiki
1940s slang term for a lesbian comfortable with either a passive or aggressive partner

Kink
A non-standard sexual activity, fetish, or interest

Kinsey Six
A person who is completely homosexual, as opposed to one with some bisexual inclinations

Kosher
Circumcised

Kothi
India Word: Among gay circles KOTHI-means a bottom, in Telugu language Kothi is the monkey

KY
A brand of water-soluble lubricant often used for sex

L
Lesbian.

Labrys
Is a symbol of lesbian and women's strength, decentring men, matriarchy (particularly celebrating pre-patriarchal societies).

Lace Curtains
Refers to the foreskin.

Laddie or Lassie
A term used to identify children with gay parents The term began with a negative connotation assuming that the child would also be gay or lesbian It has been reclaimed as an affectionate term and a way of children being able to 'code' or identify each other in public.

Lavender Law
Legal issues, practice and study pertaining to the gay and lesbian community.

LD
Light Drinker.

LDR
Long-Distance Relationship.

Leather
Community of gay men who have a fondness for leather gear / fetish play.

Lemon
Another word for Lesbian.

Lesbian
A gay woman The ancient Greek poet Sappho lived on the island of Lesbos As Sappho became known for her poems celebrating love between women, the term lesbian changed its primary meaning from 'one who lives on Lesbos' to 'a woman like Sappho and her followers'. See our Lesbion page.

Lesbo
A lesbian refers to a homosexual woman. The word “lesbian” is not inappropriate to use, since it is the correct name for a woman who dates other women. However, make sure you are not using it in an accusatory or insulting manner.

Lesbro
The male equivalent of a fag-hag.

LGBT
Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, or Transgender person.

LGBTQ
Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender and Queer and/or Questioning.

LGBTQ+
As LGBTQ but more inclusive as a trap all you include other categories.

LGBTQIA
An umbrella term used for people who identify as lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, questioning, intersex or asexual. Some variations include a + at the end to encompass people who don’t identify as one of the above but are still queer or non-straight in some way.

Library
An adult bookstore.

Lick-Box
A gay man Term used in the early 1900's.

Light-blue boy
Russian for gay male.

Lilies of the Valley
Hemorrhoids.

Limits
Limits are important, and every submissive guy’s limits are different. A limit is the point beyond which you do not allow Dominants to go.

Lipstick Lesbian
An effeminate lesbian, or a lesbian who favours a glamorous, traditionally feminine style.

LMAO
Laughing My Ass Off. Oftern used in texts and online chat apps.

LOL
Laughing Out Loud.

Lollipop Stop
A highway rest stop used by gay men for cruising.

LS
Light Smoker.

LSD
LSD is one of the most potent, mood-changing chemicals. It is manufactured from lysergic acid, which is found in the ergot fungus that grows on rye and other grains. It is produced in crystal form in illegal laboratories, mainly in the United States. These crystals are converted to a liquid for distribution. It is odorless, colorless, and has a slightly bitter taste.

LTR
Long-Term Relationship.

Luppies
Lesbian urban professionals, or lesbian yuppies.

M
Male

M2M
Man to Man/ Male to Male (like in M2M Sex)

Make a Milk Run
To cruise a men's room

Malboro Man
Derives from the characteristic of a bonified smoker (i.e. someone who always has a cigarette AKA Flaming Fag in their MOUTH). This term usually refers to a butch man who has a love for giving oral sex as the malboro man was a cowboy and some what of a rough stud

Mariposa
This Spanish word for butterfly has come to also refer to a male homosexual

Mary
One of many women's names used in exchange for gay men's names Also a standard camp name used by gay men to refer to each other

Mashed potato
Asia term for white boys who only like white boys.

Masochist
Person who derives sexual gratification from their own pain or humiliation.

Master
The person who has control over a slave in a consensual master-slave relationship.

MBA
Married but Available

MBC
Married Black Couple

MDMA
(commonly known as ecstasy, molly, or 3,4-methylenedioxy-N-methylamphetamine) is a widely used recreational drug. It works by stimulating the release of serotonin, dopamine and norepinephrine as well as other neurotransmitters, providing a euphoric stimulant effect. During the late 80s and 90s, it became popular at raves. Many pills sold as "ecstasy" are really a mixture of MDMA, speed (or other drugs) and binders. When one acquires street ecstasy, they could be ingesting many different drugs. This is a problem, as certain drugs (such as PMA, which caused many deaths in the Netherlands as 'Pink Heart Ecstasy') can be dangerous if taken without knowing safety precautions and toxicity of said substance.

Meat Rack
A gay male cruising area

Member of the Union
Gay or lesbian person

Meow
Meow, Mephedrone (sometimes called ‘meow meow’) is a powerful stimulant and is part of a group of drugs that are closely related to the amphetamines, like speed and ecstasy. There isn't much evidence about mephedrone and it's long term effects as it's quite a new drug but because it is similar to speed and ecstasy the long term effects may well be similar. There have reports of people hospitalised due to the short-term effects.

Mephedrone
Mephedrone (sometimes called ‘meow meow’) is a powerful stimulant and is part of a group of drugs that are closely related to the amphetamines, like speed and ecstasy. There isn't much evidence about mephedrone and it's long term effects as it's quite a new drug but because it is similar to speed and ecstasy the long term effects may well be similar. There have reports of people hospitalised due to the short-term effects.

MeToo
A social media hashtag and solidarity movement in which survivors publicly recount incidents of sexual harassment and assault to demonstrate the prevalence of such abuse. Kevin Spacey was one of the first gay celebrities to be MeTooed after gay actor Anthony Rapp publicly accused him of attempted statutory rape.

Metrosexual
Someone whose habits and grooming are similar to "those considered typical of a fashionable, urban, homosexual man" (OED)

MILF
"Mother I'd Like (to) Fuck" - mothers, whether married, separated or divorced, that a male individual sees as physical attractive enough to want to have sexual intercourse with them.

Milk
What gay men call semen.

Milk Me
Term used between gays with the meaning, make me cum.

Minge
Female genitalia, derogatory.

Miss Thing
Used in place of names of other gay guys, especially in the 1980's.

MM
Marriage Minded.

Money Shot
Money shot is used to refer to a visible male climax. In the past, male pornography stars did not commonly ejaculate visibly on camera. These days, a money shot is common in both heterosexual and homosexual pornography and ejaculation will often occur visibly on the body of a partner.

Monkeypox
Monkeypox is a rare infection most commonly found in west or central Africa. There has recently been an increase in cases in the UK. Monkeypox is transmitted through close contact, so is likely being passed on during sex rather than sexual transmission.

Moumoune
The French Canadian term for a gay man. Means a physically or emotionally weak person, mostly a man, and that its only applied to gay men in a pejorative fashion

MPox
See Monkeypox.

MSM
Man Seeking Men, or men who have sex with men

MSMs
Men that have sex with men.

MSW
Man Seeking Women

MTF
Male to Female Transsexual

Muff Diving
Cunnilingus.

Mushrooms
For millennia, Psychedelic or hallucinogenic mushrooms have figured in society, culture and religion. There are more than 180 species of mushrooms which contain the psychedelics Psilocybin or Psilocin. They have a long history of use in Mexico and tribal societies and are currently one of the most popular and commonly available natural psychedelics. Psilocybin and Psilocin are the psychoactive ingredients responsible for the hallucinatory state or “trip” the user experiences some twenty minutes after consuming the mushrooms. The effect of which is similar to that of LSD but shorter lived and will be outlined in the LSD section.

MWC
Married White Couple

Nancy
An effeminate man (nancy boy).

Nancy-boy
The word "Nancy-boy" is a postwar term for a homosexual male. It is a softer word than faggot, queer, or dick-smoker. "Nancy-boy" is synonymous with "that way," meaning light-in-the-loafers, but harmless and not at all threatening or predatory.

Napkin Ring
A cock ring

Naughty Bits
A polite way to say male genitalia.

NBM
Never Been Married.

NBW
Never Been Married

ND
Non-Drinker or No Drug user

Necrophiliac
Hhaving or relating to a sexual attraction to dead bodies.

NEG
HIV-Negative

Nellie/Nelly
Very effeminate or silly.

Newbie
A gay man or female that has onlyh just come'out'.

NK
No kids

NLP
No Losers Please

No Taps
This person has some sort of inexplicable problem with receiving compliments.

Nobbo
A completely useless person, one who can't function properly without fucking things up.

Non-Biologicals
The non-birth parent of a child Where one of the partners is the biological parent by a previous relationship or alternative means and the other is not

Nonbinary
A term used to describe individuals who may experience a gender identity that is neither exclusively woman nor man or is between or beyond both genders.

NPNC
No Picture No Chat. Will not talk with you if you dont't have a photo of yourself.

NRE
New Relationship Energy.

NS
Non-Smoker

NSA Sex
No-Strings-Attached Sex (seeking for a sex buddy, instead of a relationship)

Number
A trick; a casual sex partner.

Omnisexual
A individual is someone who is attracted to persons of all genders and orientations. The term is often used as a synonym for pansexual.

One-Eyed Cyclops
(French) The head of the penis.

Opera Queen
A devoted gay fan of the opera or divas.

Oral
When 2 men suck each other's cocks to make their dicks ejaculate (cum) into their mouth.

Oreo Sex
Sex between two black men and a white man.

Otter
A gay man who is very hairy all over his body, but is smaller in frame and weighs considerably less than a bear.

Out
Open about one's sexual orientation to the general population.

Outed
When someone discloses information about someone’s sexual orientation or gender identity without that person’s knowledge and/or consent.

Ownership
Represents the owner in a master/slave, dominance/submissive relationship.

P
Professional (this means that he works in an office)

P-spot
Male prostate hot spot.

PA
Prince Albert: The Prince Albert (PA) is one of the most common male genital piercings. The PA is "a ring-style piercing that extends along the underside of the glans from the urethral opening to where the glans meets the shaft of the penis.

Pan
Pansexual

Pansexual
Person who experiences sexual, romantic, physical, and/or spiritual attraction for members of all gender identities/expressions.

Pansy
An effeminate gay man, usually used derogatorily The term has been in use at least since the 1920's

Panthi
India Word: Among gay circles Panthi-means a top, in Telugu language is the person who makes it play with the strings that he holds

PDA
Public Display of Affection.

Peacocking
Attracting attention through props and clothing

Pearl Necklace
A deposit of cum, particulary around the neck of one's sex partner.

Pics
Pictures (may vary between face pics, body pics or more erotic pics)

Pillow Fucker
To masturbate using two pillows, so as if to have somebody under him. One pillow under the cock, and one pillow over, as to make a asshole.

Pillow Queen
Someone who,likes to recieve sex but not give.

Pimp
A man who controls and profits from the services of a prostitute. The pimp may also solicite for his boys.

Pin Prick
When a person who has AIDS uses a needle to transfer the virus to unsuspecting people in a night club

Pinkwashing
Pinkwashing is the strategy of promoting LGBT rights protections as evidence of liberalism and democracy, especially to distract from or legitimize violence against other countries or communities, often to improve a country's tarnished reputation.

Pins
A human pair of legs; commonly used to refer to a whole leg but technically only the part of the leg between the knee and ankle

Pls
Please

PNP
PNP, or party and play, is a subculture of drug use while having sex. PNP has been widely associated with gay men or men who have sex with men. Users pick a variety of "party drugs," but most typically crystal meth.

Pole Dancer
Very vuloptuous and flexible gay males, usually of a hispanic decent. Know for very sexually charged dance moves that include many forms of giration or ginding into other dancer's crotches. They tend to be twink & bottoms

Poly
Polygamous open to or preferring to have two or more partners at once

Polyamorous
The state of having multiple sexually or romantically committed relationships at the same time, with the consent of all partners involved.

Polysexual
A person is someone who is sexually and/or romantically attracted to multiple genders. It is not the same as being bisexual or pansexual, although all of these sexualities involve being attracted to more than one gender. It also is not the same as being polyamorous.

Poof
A gay man. This word generally derogatory, is common in Australia and England Sometimes also poofter

Poofery
Behaviour characteristic of homosexuals.

Poofter
A gay man

POS
HIV-Positive

Potato Queen
Asian guy with a preference for white guys

Power Bottom
A man with a very very strong sex drive for being penetrated extended lengths of time by one or more guys and double penetration. He’s a man that has no qualms in how fast, how hard, or how big the penetrator is. His confidence is only heightened by his fierce ability to mesmerize any top he comes into contact with, making it the ideal bottoming experience. In other words, he’s a top’s fantasy come to life.

Poz
Refers to someone who is HIV positive.

Pride
A celebration of a specific minority group and affirmation of equal rights for members of that community. One can attend their local Pride or wear some colorful Pride gear, but when uncapitalized, “pride” merely refers to one’s own sense of self-value or their conceitedly inflated ego.

Princeton Rub
Intercourse between two men in which one's penis rubs between the other's thigh, or between the two men's abdomens

Prison honey bun
A person that will later be raped by their cell mate.

Pronouns
Class of words that an individual would like others to use when talking to or about that individual (he/him/his, she/her/hers, or they/them/theirs).

Prostate
The prostate is a small gland, located in the pelvis, between the penis and bladder.

Pure
A gay man that has never had sex with a woman.

Queef
Vaginal flatulence or Fanny Fart.

Queen
An effeminate gay man Gay men who aspire to royalty will be disappointed to learn that this usage of the word queen is only a distant relative of the queen who sits on a throne It is linguistically closer to queen - a disparaging word for an unpleasant or promiscuous woman, dating to the sixteenth century

Queenie
An effeminate gay man is acting like a queen, 'queenie is being such a queen'.

Queer
Homosexual, usually meaning reference to men Originally meaning "odd", the term seems to have taken on this meaning early in the twentieth century

Queerbaiting
A marketing technique used to attract queer viewers that involves creating romantic or sexual tension between two same-sex characters just to meet equality targets.

Questioning
An individual who or time when someone is unsure about or exploring their own sexual orientation or gender identity.

Quiosexual
Unsure whether you experience sexual attrition (ace spectrum).

Ranch
As in "She's going to the ranch" A way of saying someone is going crazy Stems from the Anita Bryant ranch style "homosexual healing centres"

Randy
Slang for horny. Someone who are sexually aroused or that they easily become sexually aroused.

Raw
Sex with no condoms (Bare Back or BB).

Rent Boy
A young man selling is body to another person and is younger then 18 years old

Rice Queen
A white guy with a predilection for Asian guys

Rim
To lick or suck the anus of a sex partner

RL
Real Life - i.e. not online, or by phone

RN
Right now. Looking for a meet now.

Rubber
The fetishist attraction to people wearing rubber clothing, or in certain cases, to the rubber garments themselves.

Rugged
A person usually Male who is attempting to exude an air of enhanced masculinity.

S
Single

S&M
Sadism and masochism S & M enthusiasts derive part of their pleasure from inflicting pain or humiliation (the sadist) or having pain inflicted upon them (the masochist) - but always within defined and mutually agreed limits

Sadist
Person who is sexually aroused or gains sexual gratification by inflicting pain, cruelty, or humiliation on others.

Safe Word
Safe words are vital for beginners and experienced kinky sex. A safe word is a word or phrase that submissives use to stop what the dominate person is doing

Salt and Pepper
Someone with grey (or white) and black hair on their body and/or head.

Sapphistry
Lesbian love; derived from Sappho, the lesbian poet of ancient Greece

Sappho Daddy-O
A heterosexual man who socialises extensively with lesbians

SBF
Single Black Female

SBiF
Single Bisexual Female

SBM
Single Black Male

Scat/Brown
Some on who is into deficatation

Scene
The cultural and social environment associated with homosexuals; specifically, gay and lesbian bars, clubs, etc.

Scenery
Anyone whom you are interested in, but is of the wrong sexual orientation Thus you can "Sit back and enjoy the scenery"

SD
Social Drinker (drinks alcohol only whenever he is out partying)

Section 28
or Clause 28 this Government Act states that local authorities "shall not intentionally promote homosexuality or publish material with the intention of promoting homosexuality" or "promote the teaching in any maintained school of the acceptability of homosexuality as a pretended family relationship".

Seeding
When one man cums inside another guy who is really horny and he wants to own him with his cum so he pushes it all inside him and makes him take every last drop of it with no condom holding it back.

Sergeant
A butch lesbian A mid 1900's term

Sexting
Sending sexually suggestive, nude, or nearly nude photos or videos of yourself.

Sexual Orientation
The type of sexual, romantic, and/or physical attraction someone feels toward others. Often labeled based on the gender identity/expression of the person and who they are attracted to. Common labels: lesbian, gay, bisexual, pansexual, etc.

SGAM
Single Gay Asian Male (may interchange with SAGM)

SGAPM
Single Gay Asian Professional Male

SGBM
Single Gay Black Male (may interchange with SBGM)

SGBPM
Single Gay Black Professional Male

SGHM
Single Gay Hispanic Male (may interchange with SHGM)

SGHPM
Single Gay Hispanic Professional Male

Sgl
Single person

SGM
Single Gay Male

SGWM
Single Gay White Male (may interchange with SWGM)

SGWPM
Single Gay White Professional Male

Shirtlifter
A male who doesn`t want a girlfriend,he`s a shirtlifter.

Shivy
A detestable person.

Showoff
To have sex in a public place.

Shrimping
Toe-sucking

SI
Similar Interests

Side
A guy who is neither top, bottom or versatile. Sides tend not to partake in anal sex and prefer to have sex in different ways, for example oral sex or through using toys.

Significant Other
A partner in a serious relationship In the early 1970s, unhappy with terms such as lover, girlfriend, and boyfriend for describing same-sex partners, some gay men and lesbians began using the term "Significant Other"

Size Queen
A gay man who is especially interested in partners with large penises

Slamming
The term used to describe the action of injecting drugs. The term specifically relates to the injecting of drugs rather than the swallowing or snorting of substances which is more common at most chemsex parties.

Slang
A type of language consisting of words and phrases that are regarded as very informal, are more common in speech than writing, and are typically restricted to a particular group (LGBTQ+ people) or people living in the same area.

Slave
Some one that is owned or controlled by a dominant person (master) with the intent of hard sex.

Slut
Slut is generally a term for a man or girl who is considered to have loose sexual morals or who is sexually promiscuous. It is usually used as an insult, sexual slur or offensive term of disparagement

SM
Sado Masochism. Getting pleasure from inflicting or receiving pain.

Snow Queen
A black man who only dates white men

Snowball
Spitting the cum back into the mouth of the person who ejaculated it.

Sober
Someone who does not drink alcohol.

Sodomite
The term “sodomite” is taken from the city of Sodom (Genesis 19:1-26). The definition of sodomite refers to anyone who actively engages in homosexual or lesbian acts.

Sodomy
Anal or oral sex between people, or sexual activity between a person, same as Buggery.

Soft Butch
A butch lesbian with a soft side and gentle demeanour

SoH
Sense of Humor

Sounding
Is where you insert a urethra sounds into the hole of your penis

Speed
Speed is the street name for the Class B drug amphetamine sulphate. Sometimes speed is used to refer to other types of amphetamines. Speed is a stimulant and people take ‘speed’ to keep them awake, energised and alert.

Speedo
Informal or = speedometer the Webster presents speed ball as a mixture of narcotics What kind of clothing are gays into then?

Splash Party
Group jerk offs sessions

Sprattie
Matted hair

STDs
Sexually Transmitted Diseases

Steam Queen
Maritime Derogatory term, Old homosexual man

Sticky Rice
Asian guy with a preference for other Asian guys

STIs
Sexually Transmitted Infections

Str
Straight person

Straight
Man or woman who is attracted to people of the other binary gender than themselves.

Strap on sex
Sexual acts carried out by a woman by the use of a dildo that straps on to her waist

Stud
Female who is lesbian who acts and dresses like a dude

Sub
Submissive (seeks guys who are dominant in sex)

Submissive
Submissive (seeks guys who are dominant in sex)

Sugar Daddy
An older man who financially supports a younger partner

SWF
Single White Female

Switch
A guy (or girl) who enjoys both domination and submission. To fuck and be fucked during the same sex session.

Switch-hitter
You know, those people who don't know they are gay yet

SWM
Single White Male

Tapette
The French Canadian expression to describe a gay guy. Although it also have some pejorative connotations, it has in some ways been reclaimed by gay guys and will sometimes be heard to describe a queen

Teabagging
When a guy dips his package on the head of someone

Tearoom
A public lavatory that is often cruised by gay men

Tennis Player
Often used to refer to gay people, especially lesbians. As most female tennis players tend be have toned bodies, and a lot of lesbians like to play tennis (or sports in general) its become somewhat of an underground stereotype for a closeted lesbian. Conversely it also refers to males who are speculated of being closeted themselves, as gay men tend to find tennis players attractive

TG
Transgender (someone who has completely transformed into someone of opposite sex)

Theatre Queen
A devoted fan of the theatre especially musical theatre

Themself
A gender-neutral way to refer to one’s self, like an agender version of “himself” or “herself.” One would use this word to refer to a nonbinary or gender-nonconforming person alongside other gender-neutral pronouns like they, them, their, theirs, and themselves. Some folks have even playfully changed the gendered introduction “Ladies and Gentlemen” to the gender-neutral “Theydies and Gentlethem.”

Throwing shade
Giving someone a nasty look (af am term) oftern from a straight man being eyed up by a gay man.

Thrupney Bits
Woman’s breasts.

Tina
or 'Crystal methamphetamine' is one of the fastest growing drugs in the gay community. To users it's short-term effects may. Crystal can be injected, snorted or smoked. In its crystal form it is called ice or glass

TLC
Tender Loving Care

Top
The active partner in anal intercourse

Tossed Salad
Anilingus and rimming

Trade
Term used for random shags

Tranny
Term used chiefly to describe people who are transgender, transsexual, wearing drag, transvestites, or cross-dressers.

Trans
See Transgender. See our Trans page.

Trans+
Pronounced “trans-plus,” this word describes people with gender expressions outside of the traditional male-female binary. Trans+ people can include individuals who are transgender, genderqueer, agender, nonbinary, or other gender identities and expressions.

Transgender
A term referring to when one's gender and sex are not always or ever equivalent. Often used as a referrant to the person themself. See our Trans page.

Transphobia
The fear or hatred of transgender people or gender non-conforming behavior. Like biphobia, transphobia can also exist among lesbian, gay, and bisexual people as well as among heterosexual people.

Transvestite
Person who dresses as the binary opposite gender expression (“cross-dresses”) for any one of many reasons, including relaxation, fun, and sexual gratification.

Travel
Can only travel you yours or somwhere else. May be away from home, have flatmates or live at parents.

Tribadism
Lesbianism; sometimes used specifically to describe sexual activity in which one women rubs another's pudenda with her thigh or with a dildo The term originated with ancient Greeks

Troll
A man in a cruising area that won't take no for an answer

Trunction Muncher
Cock sucker

TS
Transgender (someone who has completely transformed into someone of opposite sex)

TT
Tit Torture. When it comes to guys, this refers to nipple play, which normally involves biting, twisting or using clamps.

Turtleneck
Uncircumcised

Tutting
A dance move in vougeing (see vougeing)

TV
Transvestite (someone who wears clothing of the opposite sex)

Twink
Twink is a gay slang term used to refer to a young (18 to early 20s) homosexual man with certain outward characteristics, such as an effeminate manner, a thin build, no body or facial hair, which all contribute to a youthful look. The term has origins of usage in the 1970s.

Twunk
A twink who is addicted to the gym and protein drinks and is bulked up. Comes from mixing Twink with Hunk.

U=U
Undetectable = Untransmittable. It means that someone with an undetectable HIV viral load on HIV treatment (ART) cannot transmit HIV, even without using condoms or PrEP. Is also part of an international campaign to raise awareness about this benefit of ART. Currently, more than 720 organisations have joined from over 90 countries.

Uncut
Uncircumcised penis

Unicorn
A single male who likes to sleep with couples.

Up-hill-gardener
A gay man

Urning
Derived - A homosexual male Karl Heinrich Ulrichs introduced this term in 1864 as part of his theory of homosexuality Ulrichs, who was himself homosexual, was attempting to explain homosexuality in a positive light

Vacuum Cleaner
2.A man that attraced sexual to sucking on the heck of the man or boy that he is with, giving a hicky.

Vanilla Sex
Relatively conventional forms of sexual activity, usually contrast to S&M sex

VBD
Very Bad Date.

VD
Venereal disease.

Viagra
A commercial drug designed to treat erectile dysfunction. For men who cannot get or sustain a stiff erection,

Vougeing
Underground dance form started by gay youth, made mainstream by madonna.

Vrs
Versatile (can be Top or Bottom; may also appear as Versa)

W
White (Caucasian)

W/
With (for instance, “W/ own place”)

W/E
Well-Endowed (having an above-average sized penis)

W4W
Woman looking for a Woman.

W4WW
Woman looking for a female couple.

WAA
Will Answer All

Wall Queen
Male homosexual prostitute who supports himself by engaging in quick-sex, often against a wall.

Wank
To masturbate.

Wank Mag
A pornographic magazine, especially one used for sexual excitement during masturbation.

Wanker
Literally someone who enjoys to masturbate but usually used as an insult for an asshole.

Wasbian
Which basically means the same thing as yester gay eccept its a gay man who turns straight.

WASP
White Anglo-Saxon Protestant

Water sports
The act or urinating on your partner

Weed
Weed (Cannabis) is naturally occurring substance that can act as a relaxant and mild hallucinogenic. When smoked, the effects are usually felt fairly quickly with people feeling more relaxed, happy and generally laid back. Strong cannabis can also lead to pointless giggling, loss of inhibitions and an enhanced appreciation of music and colours. Marijuana has also been reported to ease the pain, nausea and vomiting in advanced stages of cancer, AIDS and other serious illnesses.

Weird
Doing drugs. Using any kind of drug, alcohol or illegal substance. Geting completely 'Fucked up'.

Well Hung
He is well hung: He has a large penis.

Whore
A guy (or girl) who sleeps with multiple people lots of times.

Wingman
A person who helps a friend meet people.

Wolf
A hairy gay man who’s neither a Bear nor an Otter but floats somewhere in between. Also, may not howl at the moon if you ask him too.

Wolly Woofter
A mildly derogatory term for a homosexual man (rhyming slang)

Working Boy
Male who expects payment in return for sexual services

Working Girl
Female who expects payment in return for sexual services

WS
Water Sports (having sex that involves urine)

WW4W
Female couple looking for a woman.

Xobile
1.The act of transmitting or receiving adult content over wireless devices.
2.Surfing for adult images or videos on a wireless device

Yellow
Someone who's into urine

Yestergay (n)
Someone who has 'went from gay to straight' magically

YO
Years Old (for instance, 20 Years Old

Zipper Club
An orgy room in a bar, bathhouse, or toilet.

Zoo Queen
A person who wants to be treated like an animal. Common behavior is wearing a collar and even eating out of an animal's dish.

Zoophilia
Getting arrosed involving a sexual fixation on/with non-human animals.

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