Paranormal Finding
Location: Sussex, UKWe are proud to be an LGBTQ+ run group. If you are interested in all things Paranormal then this is the perfect group to get involved with. If you know any destinations that you believe to have Paranormal happenings, contact us today. We are always looking for volunteers to help us on our Investigations, you can do this via our website. We also have an events page worth looking at. So get in touch!
The Paranormal Findings on PinkUkGay/Lesbian Hanky Codes
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The handkerchief code (also known as the hanky code, the bandana code is a colour-coded system, employed usually among the gay male casual-sex
seekers or BDSM practitioners in the United States, Canada, Australia and Europe, to indicate preferred sexual fetishes, what kind of sex they are seeking,
and whether they are a top/dominant or bottom/submissive.
Wearing a handkerchief on the left side of the body typically indicates one is a "top" (one considered active in the practice of the
act/fetish indicated by the colour of the handkerchief), while wearing it on the right side of the body would indicate one is a "bottom"
(one considered passive in the practice of the act/fetish indicated by the colour of the handkerchief).
The hanky code was widely used in the 1970s by gay and bisexual men.
Gay male hanky codes
Colour | Meaning | Left pocket | Right pocket |
---|---|---|---|
Oral Sex | Wants | Gives | |
Sixty-niner | |||
Fucking | Active | Passive | |
Dildo user | Active | Passive | |
Likes navel worship | Mauve | Navel worshipper | |
Likes armpits | Wants armpit worships | Armpit fetish worshippers | |
Piercings | Piercer | Piercee | |
Drag | Lavender | in drag | |
Golden showers | Like to piss on people | Likes being pissed on | |
Spits | Likes to spit | Drool crazy | |
Has 8" or more | Mustard | Likes big guyz | |
2 looking for 1 | Gold | 1 Looking for 2 | |
Anything goes | Top | Passive | |
Two Tons O'Fun | Bear | Chubby chaser | |
Foot Fetish | Top | Shrimper | |
Cowboy | Rust | His horse | |
Spanking | Spanker | Spankee | |
Uniform | Uniform top | Uniform bottom | |
Daddy | Who's the daddy | Wants daddy | |
Dines | Dines off Tricks | Dinner plate | |
Rimming | Rimmer | Rimmee | |
Uncut | Is uncut | Likes uncut | |
Cut | Is cut | Likes cut | |
Heavy S&M | Top | Passive | |
Bondage | Top | Passive | |
Latex | Top | Bottom | |
Masturbating | Masturbate me | Will masturbate you | |
Red/White stripes | Shaving | Shaver | Shavee |
Muscleman | Muscleman top | Muscleman bottom | |
Doily | Tearooms | Top | Bottom |
Lesbian hanky codes
Colour | Meaning | Left pocket | Right pocket |
---|---|---|---|
Oral Sex | Wants | Gives | |
Anal sex | Top | Bottom | |
Light S&M | Top | Bottom | |
Food fetish | Active | Passive | |
Anything goes | Top | Passive | |
Golden showers | Like to piss on people | Likes being pissed on | |
Rent | Buying | Selling | |
Uniforms | Top | Bottom | |
Virgins | Likes virgins | Virgin | |
Bondage | Does bondage | Wants bondage | |
Heavy SM | Dominatrix | Bottom | |
Group sex | Top | Passive | |
Breasts | Breast fondler | Breast fondlee |