LGBTQ+ slang dictionary

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If you have always wanted to know what those LGBTQ+ slang words, dating abbreviations, acronyms & slang terms mean that every uses but were too shy to ask, or if you wanted to know where they came from then the LGBTQ+ dictionary is your answer.
If you know of any LGBTQ+ slang words or LGBTQ+ terms we don't have listed, please let us know, thanks.

We have a total of 562 words listed.

S
Single

S&M
Sadism and masochism S & M enthusiasts derive part of their pleasure from inflicting pain or humiliation (the sadist) or having pain inflicted upon them (the masochist) - but always within defined and mutually agreed limits

Sadist
Person who is sexually aroused or gains sexual gratification by inflicting pain, cruelty, or humiliation on others.

Safe Word
Safe words are vital for beginners and experienced kinky sex. A safe word is a word or phrase that submissives use to stop what the dominate person is doing

Salt and Pepper
Someone with grey (or white) and black hair on their body and/or head.

Sapphistry
Lesbian love; derived from Sappho, the lesbian poet of ancient Greece

Sappho Daddy-O
A heterosexual man who socialises extensively with lesbians

SBF
Single Black Female

SBiF
Single Bisexual Female

SBM
Single Black Male

Scat/Brown
Some on who is into deficatation

Scene
The cultural and social environment associated with homosexuals; specifically, gay and lesbian bars, clubs, etc.

Scenery
Anyone whom you are interested in, but is of the wrong sexual orientation Thus you can "Sit back and enjoy the scenery"

SD
Social Drinker (drinks alcohol only whenever he is out partying)

Section 28
or Clause 28 this Government Act states that local authorities "shall not intentionally promote homosexuality or publish material with the intention of promoting homosexuality" or "promote the teaching in any maintained school of the acceptability of homosexuality as a pretended family relationship".

Seeding
When one man cums inside another guy who is really horny and he wants to own him with his cum so he pushes it all inside him and makes him take every last drop of it with no condom holding it back.

Sergeant
A butch lesbian A mid 1900's term

Sexting
Sending sexually suggestive, nude, or nearly nude photos or videos of yourself.

Sexual Orientation
The type of sexual, romantic, and/or physical attraction someone feels toward others. Often labeled based on the gender identity/expression of the person and who they are attracted to. Common labels: lesbian, gay, bisexual, pansexual, etc.

SGAM
Single Gay Asian Male (may interchange with SAGM)

SGAPM
Single Gay Asian Professional Male

SGBM
Single Gay Black Male (may interchange with SBGM)

SGBPM
Single Gay Black Professional Male

SGHM
Single Gay Hispanic Male (may interchange with SHGM)

SGHPM
Single Gay Hispanic Professional Male

Sgl
Single person

SGM
Single Gay Male

SGWM
Single Gay White Male (may interchange with SWGM)

SGWPM
Single Gay White Professional Male

Shirtlifter
A male who doesn`t want a girlfriend,he`s a shirtlifter.

Shivy
A detestable person.

Showoff
To have sex in a public place.

Shrimping
Toe-sucking

SI
Similar Interests

Side
A guy who is neither top, bottom or versatile. Sides tend not to partake in anal sex and prefer to have sex in different ways, for example oral sex or through using toys.

Significant Other
A partner in a serious relationship In the early 1970s, unhappy with terms such as lover, girlfriend, and boyfriend for describing same-sex partners, some gay men and lesbians began using the term "Significant Other"

Size Queen
A gay man who is especially interested in partners with large penises

Slamming
The term used to describe the action of injecting drugs. The term specifically relates to the injecting of drugs rather than the swallowing or snorting of substances which is more common at most chemsex parties.

Slang
A type of language consisting of words and phrases that are regarded as very informal, are more common in speech than writing, and are typically restricted to a particular group (LGBTQ+ people) or people living in the same area.

Slave
Some one that is owned or controlled by a dominant person (master) with the intent of hard sex.

Slut
Slut is generally a term for a man or girl who is considered to have loose sexual morals or who is sexually promiscuous. It is usually used as an insult, sexual slur or offensive term of disparagement

SM
Sado Masochism. Getting pleasure from inflicting or receiving pain.

Snow Queen
A black man who only dates white men

Snowball
Spitting the cum back into the mouth of the person who ejaculated it.

Sober
Someone who does not drink alcohol.

Sodomite
The term “sodomite” is taken from the city of Sodom (Genesis 19:1-26). The definition of sodomite refers to anyone who actively engages in homosexual or lesbian acts.

Sodomy
Anal or oral sex between people, or sexual activity between a person, same as Buggery.

Soft Butch
A butch lesbian with a soft side and gentle demeanour

SoH
Sense of Humor

Sounding
Is where you insert a urethra sounds into the hole of your penis

Speed
Speed is the street name for the Class B drug amphetamine sulphate. Sometimes speed is used to refer to other types of amphetamines. Speed is a stimulant and people take ‘speed’ to keep them awake, energised and alert.

Speedo
Informal or = speedometer the Webster presents speed ball as a mixture of narcotics What kind of clothing are gays into then?

Splash Party
Group jerk offs sessions

Sprattie
Matted hair

STDs
Sexually Transmitted Diseases

Steam Queen
Maritime Derogatory term, Old homosexual man

Sticky Rice
Asian guy with a preference for other Asian guys

STIs
Sexually Transmitted Infections

Str
Straight person

Straight
Man or woman who is attracted to people of the other binary gender than themselves.

Strap on sex
Sexual acts carried out by a woman by the use of a dildo that straps on to her waist

Stud
Female who is lesbian who acts and dresses like a dude

Sub
Submissive (seeks guys who are dominant in sex)

Submissive
Submissive (seeks guys who are dominant in sex)

Sugar Daddy
An older man who financially supports a younger partner

SWF
Single White Female

Switch
A guy (or girl) who enjoys both domination and submission. To fuck and be fucked during the same sex session.

Switch-hitter
You know, those people who don't know they are gay yet

SWM
Single White Male

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