Spicing up your adult fun in 2022

A new year is here, and we can’t wait to get stuck in. There are so many things to enjoy in life and after the last couple of years we deserve a bit more quality in our life. At esmale we are very much hoping for a year that has plenty of social interactions - going out without a care in the world or just jumping on a plane for a holiday in the sun. Also, on the top of the list this year is doing some serious hooking up and having some serious adult-pleasure.

How, what, and where?
For those of you that also want to hook up but are not sure where to do this in the local area, fear not! PinkUK has you covered, just check out their extensive cruising, dating, escort and sauna sections. This should give you all the hook-ups you can handle. In addition, there are various apps you can rely on.

With regards to the how and the what, here are a few tips we hope will give your adult fun a little kick for 2022.

Small things that can make a difference.

There are so many “easy wins“ that can make a difference, we could write a book about it. But in bullet point form here are some tricks and suggestions:

• For those of you that tend to go soft after a while, why not use a cock ring? I know this sounds so simple, but you’ll be surprised how the right cock ring can keep you harder for longer.
• If anal sex hurts you or makes you feel uncomfortable, use some anal numbing lube. Again, very simple but not everybody knows numbing lube exists and it can turn the discomfort into pleasure.
• Talking about lube, make sure you use the correct one for your needs. We would often recommend a hybrid lube. This a water-based lube with a small amount of silicone. It is safe to use with condoms and toys plus it stays wet for longer due to the inclusion of silicone. Note: for specialist fun like fisting there are many products designed for those specific activities.
• Do you or your man like it a bit bigger? Use cock sheaths this will increase the length and girth of your manhood. You can also use a penis pump to temporarily increase your penis size.
• To take away any worries that you might not be clean down there, use a shower shot douche rather than a bulb douche. These shower heads will provide a very thorough clean so you can fully relax and enjoy the fun.
• For those of you that love some serious self-pleasure we would suggest a Fleshjack masturbator, these are high quality and intensify your orgasm.
• Communicate, talk to the person who you are playing with. This will increase confidence and a deeper connection. Extra knowledge about what each of you like can lead to a better session. Also, say no to things you do not like or want.
• Have fun, no need to take it all too serious (unless that is your thing). Play time is about having a good time, making your body feel things. It is not a performance act. Performance pressure often takes the fun away.

So these are the top tips! Enjoy and always have plenty of essentials like lube with you and for those who like poppers please go and have a look at our sister store Popper Super Shop where you will find a massive collection.

If you want to experience that extra kick in your adult fun you have to take the new steps, if it is not coming to you. Maybe experiment with things that are out of your comfort zone. This could be in the way you meet people or include some products during your sessions that you normally would not. Explore what your body likes and push that to a level you are comfortable with. As mentioned before, it is all about the fun and pleasure of it!

To get things started it might be good to know that esmale's big January sale is on at esmale.com and poppersupershop.com. So come in and have a look to get your new year started with a bang.

If anyone needs more advice of has a question just go to the website and contact us, we are always happy to be of assistance.

With love
Jay and the team @ esmale