Explore your kink side

November 2024 By Oliver, esmale.

Oliver from our friends at adult store esmale offers some of their latest tips for your bedroom life

Are you ready to introduce some kink into your bedroom?
You might have been looking at this for a while, or maybe you have been feeling something is missing, or certain urges are not being met. In this article, we are going to explore kink in more detail than just using a bottle of poppers aromas to lose your inhibitions!

What is kink?
In short, you could say that it includes everything outside what is considered vanilla sex, even the now-normalised use of male sex toys It also covers a range of intensity from mild to stronger experiences.

Kink has been around for decades and is practised across many different cultures. Kink is always consensual and reaches out into areas like “non-traditional sexual, sensual, and intimate behaviours such as SM, domination and submission, erotic role play, fetishism, and erotic forms of discipline and pain.” Kink can be practised in couples, groups and solo sex. Before you venture into something like this, communicate with the people involved because one person’s kink is another person’s turn-off.

Getting kinky, how to start!

What does it mean to you? Before you walk into the bedroom with your more full-on equipment such as fisting gloves on and scare the hell out of your partner, it is important to explore what kink means to you. It is on a scale from soft to extreme. By understanding what you are into you can express this to those involved and find an area everybody is happy with. It is important to create a safe space where everybody feels appreciated, and needs are met.
Communication. As mentioned earlier, it is beneficial that you talk through your needs and expectations and listen to those of potential partners. It will really serve as a guide through your session, and by openly talking, you might discover more things you like. The more extreme the activity the more important it becomes to have a 'safe word' as an alert. A safe word is a word used if a person does not want to continue or needs to take a break.

Popular kink in our Stores
Now that we have a framework to explore kink in a consensual and safe way we can have a look at a few product ranges that have captured the imagination of our customers.

BDSM is the number one area for our kinky customers. Bondage is a great seller, tying up your partner and taking control seems to be a huge turn-on. Whether you are in control or being controlled, it can be a fantastically intense experience that feeds into the deeper desires in one’s mind.
Solo kink is very popular. You don’t have to be with another person to explore your kink. Solo fetish play is often aligned with a pain threshold. For example, electro-stimulated masturbators or anal toys are hot. Sounding is another kink that seems to speak to the imagination of many men! Lastly, we see a big appetite for XXL anal toys and anal stretching toys How much can one take?
Nipple Play, I have never understood this one myself, I am one of those who do not enjoy any nipple action but to my surprise this fetish is huge! From nipple sucking, clamping to running pinwheels over your nipple. These are all sensations loved by many.
Kinky Wear, it is not all about how things feel or how certain scenarios satisfy you. Within the Kink scene, how you look can be important, too. Leather, harnesses or underwear with an edge are in great demand. In our store, we have various brands that specialise in fetish wear. Darkroom, Locker Gear and Breedwell are a few of them. Easy-access products seem to be popular, like bottomless briefs or jocks that have a removable pouch.
Poppers, another product range that seems to be used whilst expressing your kink are poppers or room aromas as they are also called. Know to lose your inhibitions these little bottles are like marmite. Some love them and others do not. With liquid gold as one of the oldest brands and Berlin XXX, widely seen as the strongest, use them is very much a personal preference.

Hopefully, this has been informative and maybe even got you to consider what your kinks are. Most people have some, so we hope you enjoy them! We have listed out stores below so you can have a look at all the tools & gear that can lead to some great intense time.

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With Love,
Oliver and team at esmale.com.