Gay slang dictionary
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Someone who is HIV+ and who knowingly engages in unsafe sex
In Singapore, AJ stands for gay
B & D
Bondage and discipline A milder form of S&M that involves one partner being at least constrained
A young or inexperienced lesbian, particularly of high school or college age
An underground dance movement started by gay youth.
The practice of having anal sex without using a condom As in skin-to-skin sex or raw sex
A man's crotch
An extremely hairy man
The significate other half of a person of the opposite sex who is gay, a beard is used to make the world think the gay partner is straight. Sometimes the beard knows they are a beard sometime they are being decieved.
Asion term for blacks who only like blacks.
Gay, referring mostly to males
A gay man who frequents public toilets for sex
A American word for drag Queen
The passive or submissive partner in anal intercourse
A derogatory term for heterosexuals, especially for those who glorify childbearing
A Chicken that is passed it (been out on the scene to long)
Some on who is into deficatation
Frightening ominous lesbian.
An extremely butch lesbian
Straight-acting, but gay or bi-boy
A young man who fears being forced into homosexual sex Derivation from a 19th century prison term
Some one who eats pussy
Anyone who is under the legal age of consent Young gays & lesbians
Someone who is attracted to under-age partners
A slim person who is attracted to guys of a broad or heavy build
Refers to one's chosen family
Group masturbation or jerking off
The standardised gay male look In the 70's the look included a moustache, muscle shirt/flannel shirt and Levi's The late 80's - 90's included short hair, long sideburns, white tee-shirt, shorts/jeans and Doc boots with grey socks
Someone who won't come out.
Not revealing one's sexual orientation to the general population
A public affirmation of your commitment and union Often has roots within pagan ceremonies
Public toilet Not used much today except by older men
Dressing in clothing that is traditionally assigned to the opposite gender
Crossing The Line
Ceremony to celebrate crossing the equator. The firstimers would be abused greatly rather homo-erotic
A derogatory term for a lesbian
The term 'Daddy' in the U.S.A. is a person who generally 'tops' or who earns a great deal more money then the younger, if not employed, 'bottom'
Having sex with strangers in a public place. "Observers are encouraged, thus making dogging a form of exhibitionism" (Wikipedia)
Dressed in a way usually identified with the opposite sex
A woman dressed like a man
A synonym for gay, particularly when used as a term of endearment.
Men, gay or straight, who like to hang with a dyke
A lesbian The term derives from the nineteenth-century slang word dike, which referred to male clothing, and when it was first used to refer to women, it carried a derogatory connotation of masculine appearance or behaviour
Refers to a straight woman using lesbianism as a feminist argument or a way or insulting men
Refers to a male, straight or otherwise, who enjoys the company of lesbian women to a straight woman using lesbianism as a feminist argument or a way or insulting men
To come over the face
A gay man who is a just a fashion accessory to a straight women i.e. like the gay men in 'Sex in the City' they are an extension of the straight woman's ward robe
A (usually straight) woman who socialises extensively with gay men. Fag-hags and hag-fags have special bonds, like fancying same blokes
Straight male, who is married or has a girlfriend AND Gay best friends. Straight male who frequents gay bars/clubs to hang out with Gay friends. Some say "it's not cheating" on their spouses/girlfriends. It's "a night out with the bquot;
Derived - Way back when churchmen were burning suspected witches (possible lesbians also) at the stake. they stacked the fires with small bundles of branches tied together called "faggots" ... occasionally anyone suspected of homosexuality was (Unfortunately) tossed on, to entertain the crowds hence the term
Faggot (also Fag)
A male homosexual Like dyke, this term was originally used as an epithet, but has been adopted by many of the people to whom it refers There is no general agreement about the origin of the term
A male homosexual, especially one who acts or dresses in an effeminate manner This was a common derogatory term for homosexuals during much of the twentieth century Like dyke and faggot, gay people have reclaimed it
Term used in the mid-1900's for a lesbian bottom
Meaning being part of the lesbian and gay community As in, "He's a member of the family, He's gay"
A Yiddish term for gay that is derived from the word bird is another possible root for the term "fag." This is especially possible in the United States. The terms "faggot" and "fag" referring to a "bundle of sticks" were rarely used in historical American English. Furthermore, American English has incorporated many Yiddish terms (and pronunciations) into its lexicon. "Feigele" is pronounced "veyg-uh-luh," and as in most Germanic pronunciations, the "v" sound is commonly softened to an "f." In the northeast US, "fag" is pronounced more like, "feyg."
A queeny queen
A lesbian or gay man who acts and dresses effeminately
To insert part or all of one's hand into the anus or vagina of a sex partner
Very outwardly gay male who displays stereotypical gay behaviors Likes it in the poop shooter: Has a particular affinity for anal sex
Someone who would help another to arousal for a third party (Porn Film, photographer, sex party etc)
Term used by lesbians Meaning a woman is turned on In gay male leather circles, this meant term is meant for someone who isn't into the dress code Derives from the description of someone who wears bulky or "fluffy" sweaters A putdown from a leather man might be: "You look awfully fluffy tonight"
Also can be used as a Derogatory term for a Bear as in "He thinks he's so butch but he's really just a Fluffy"
Any location, especially a gym or Y, where gay sex is readily available
Friend of Dorothy's
Referred to as being gay This term has roots from Judy Garland, whose musical ability and tragic life story were so popular with gay audiences and of course from, "The Wizard of Oz", the classic musical
Sex between two women, often involving one rubbing the genitals of the other with her fingers; probably derived from friction
A marriage between a lesbian and gay man in order to "pass" at work and/or with family
Another term for Fag Hags Heterosexual women who socialise extensively with gay men
A gay male with feminine characteristics and/or behaviors
Derrogatory term for pussy used by straight people to describe lesbians. (e.g. She eats furburgers.)
Term for straight guy getting fucked by gay guy while under influence of alcohol.
Derived - Homosexual In the seventeenth century, gay expanded from its earlier meaning of cheerful and came also to refer to men with a reputation for being playboys
Term used when a straight guy has a gay encounter, and is finding it difficult to accept.
Term used when a straight guy has a gay encounter, and is intoxicated to partake in it again.
Straight guy secretly wanna be gay
The uncanny sensory perception that lesbians and gays have of detecting other gay people in their midst
Term for straight guy that turns gay under influence of drink.
A hole carved in the partition between stalls in a men's room, and used for sexual liaisons
The non existent rivet, which first trippers are sent to find. Supposedly in the bowls of the ship. Whilst looking, they would be raped
The act of urinating on a partner
A gay man in the armed forces
Bi-sexual male/Female because they want both
To engage in anal intercourse In its more common usage as an adjective, the term refers to a preference for anal sex
Gay urban professionals, or gay yuppies
Derived - A lesbian Kurt Hiller suggested this term in 1946 (and androtrope for a gay male), because of what he considered the negative connotations of "homosexual" Neither term caught on
The male who hangs around with his fag-hag is a hag-fag. Fag-hags and hag-fags have special bonds, like fancying same blokes
Usually made of leather, this device is strapped over the hips and crotch (over the thigh for a thigh harness), to hold a dildo in place for sexual penetration
Irrational fear of gay people and of homosexuality George Weinberg, author of Society and the Healthy Homosexual, coined this word in the early 1970's It filled a need for a gay people at that time because, in one word, it eloquently conveyed the idea that it was gay-bashers, not gays themselves, who had a problem
Attracted physically to people of the same sex
A woman's genitals
Your bottom entrance
A homosexual Paragraph 175 of the German Penal Code of 1871 outlawed homosexual practices; thus a 175er in Germany was someone violating this paragraph
Well-endowed; having a large penis The term can also be used more generally: "He was hung like a mouse" means "he has a small penis"
In the Life
A commonly used term for a gay man/woman within the black community
Homosexual The term was used by Edward Carpenter and others around the turn of the century, but soon fell into disfavour
1940s slang term for a lesbian comfortable with either a passive or aggressive partner
A person who is completely homosexual, as opposed to one with some bisexual inclinations
India Word: Among gay circles KOTHI-means a bottom, in Telugu language Kothi is the monkey
A brand of water-soluble lubricant often used for sex
Refers to the foreskin
Laddie or Lassie
A term used to identify children with gay parents The term began with a negative connotation assuming that the child would also be gay or lesbian It has been reclaimed as an affectionate term and a way of children being able to 'code' or identify each other in public
Legal issues, practice and study pertaining to the gay and lesbian community
Another word for Lesbian
A gay woman The ancient Greek poet Sappho lived on the island of Lesbos As Sappho became known for her poems celebrating love between women, the term lesbian changed its primary meaning from "one who lives on Lesbos" to "a woman like Sappho and her followers"
The male equivalent of a fag-hag
An adult bookstore
A gay man Term used in the early 1900's
Russian for gay male
Lilies of the Valley
An effeminate lesbian
A highway rest stop used by gay men for cruising
Lesbian urban professionals, or lesbian yuppies
Make a Milk Run
To cruise a men's room
Derives from the characteristic of a bonified smoker (i.e. someone who always has a cigarette AKA Flaming Fag in their MOUTH). This term usually refers to a butch man who has a love for giving oral sex as the malboro man was a cowboy and some what of a rough stud
This Spanish word for butterfly has come to also refer to a male homosexual
One of many women's names used in exchange for gay men's names Also a standard camp name used by gay men to refer to each other
Asia term for white boys who only like white boys.
A gay male cruising area
Member of the Union
Gay or lesbian person
Someone whose habits and grooming are similar to "those considered typical of a fashionable, urban, homosexual man" (OED)
Used in place of names of other gay guys, especially in the 1980's.
The French Canadian term for a gay man. Means a physically or emotionally weak person, mostly a man, and that its only applied to gay men in a pejorative fashion
An effeminate man (nancy boy)
A cock ring
Very effeminate or silly
A gay man or female that has onlyh just come'out'
The non-birth parent of a child Where one of the partners is the biological parent by a previous relationship or alternative means and the other is not
A trick; a casual sex partner
(French) The head of the penis
A devoted gay fan of the opera or divas
Sex between two black men and a white man
A skinny man who is into bears
Open about one's sexual orientation to the general population
An effeminate gay man, usually used derogatorily The term has been in use at least since the 1920's
India Word: Among gay circles Panthi-means a top, in Telugu language is the person who makes it play with the strings that he holds
Someone who,likes to recieve sex but not give.
When a person who has AIDS uses a needle to transfer the virus to unsuspecting people in a night club
Very vuloptuous and flexible gay males, usually of a hispanic decent. Know for very sexually charged dance moves that include many forms of giration or ginding into other dancer's crotches. They tend to be twink & bottoms
Polygamous open to or preferring to have two or more partners at once
A gay man. This word generally derogatory, is common in Australia and England Sometimes also poofter
A gay man
Asian guy with a preference for white guys
Intercourse between two men in which one's penis rubs between the other's thigh, or between the two men's abdomens
A gay man that has never had sex with a woman.
An effeminate gay man Gay men who aspire to royalty will be disappointed to learn that this usage of the word queen is only a distant relative of the queen who sits on a throne It is linguistically closer to queen - a disparaging word for an unpleasant or promiscuous woman, dating to the sixteenth century
Homosexual, usually meaning reference to men Originally meaning "odd", the term seems to have taken on this meaning early in the twentieth century
As in "She's going to the ranch" A way of saying someone is going crazy Stems from the Anita Bryant ranch style "homosexual healing centres"
A young man selling is body to another person and is younger then 18 years old
A white guy with a predilection for Asian guys
To lick or suck the anus of a sex partner
S & M
Sadism and masochism S & M enthusiasts derive part of their pleasure from inflicting pain or humiliation (the sadist) or having pain inflicted upon them (the masochist) - but always within defined and mutually agreed limits
Lesbian love; derived from Sappho, the lesbian poet of ancient Greece
A heterosexual man who socialises extensively with lesbians
Some on who is into deficatation
Anyone whom you are interested in, but is of the wrong sexual orientation Thus you can "Sit back and enjoy the scenery"
A butch lesbian A mid 1900's term
A detestable person.
A partner in a serious relationship In the early 1970s, unhappy with terms such as lover, girlfriend, and boyfriend for describing same-sex partners, some gay men and lesbians began using the term "Significant Other"
A gay man who is especially interested in partners with large penises
A black man who only dates white men
Spitting the cum back into the mouth of the person who ejaculated it.
A butch lesbian with a soft side and gentle demeanour
Informal or = speedometer the Webster presents speed ball as a mixture of narcotics What kind of clothing are gays into then?
Group jerk offs sessions
Maritime Derogatory term, Old homosexual man
Asian guy with a preference for other Asian guys
Strap on sex
Sexual acts carried out by a woman by the use of a dildo that straps on to her waist
Female who is lesbian who acts and dresses like a dude
An older man who financially supports a younger partner
You know, those people who don't know they are gay yet
The French Canadian expression to describe a gay guy. Although it also have some pejorative connotations, it has in some ways been reclaimed by gay guys and will sometimes be heard to describe a queen
When a guy dips his package on the head of someone
A public lavatory that is often cruised by gay men
Often used to refer to gay people, especially lesbians. As most female tennis players tend be have toned bodies, and a lot of lesbians like to play tennis (or sports in general) its become somewhat of an underground stereotype for a closeted lesbian. Conversely it also refers to males who are speculated of being closeted themselves, as gay men tend to find tennis players attractive
A devoted fan of the theatre especially musical theatre
Giving someone a nasty look (af am term) oftern from a straight man being eyed up by a gay man.
The active partner in anal intercourse
Anilingus and rimming
Term used for random shags
Lesbianism; sometimes used specifically to describe sexual activity in which one women rubs another's pudenda with her thigh or with a dildo The term originated with ancient Greeks
A man in a cruising area that won't take no for an answer
A dance move in vougeing (see vougeing)
An attractive, boyish man
A gay man
Derived - A homosexual male Karl Heinrich Ulrichs introduced this term in 1864 as part of his theory of homosexuality Ulrichs, who was himself homosexual, was attempting to explain homosexuality in a positive light
Relatively conventional forms of sexual activity, usually contrast to S&M sex
Underground dance form started by gay youth, made mainstream by madonna.
Which basically means the same thing as yester gay eccept its a gay man who turns straight.
The act or urinating on your partner
A mildly derogatory term for a homosexual man (rhyming slang)
1.The act of transmitting or receiving adult content over wireless devices.
2.Surfing for adult images or videos on a wireless device
Someone who's into urine
Someone who has 'went from gay to straight' magically